I’ve always heard that patience is a virtue. In that case, I’m far from being virtuous! Patience is not my strong suit. Anyone who has known me for a long time can attest to that.
Recently I’ve noticed that I have even less patience in some situations. I have always been the friend everyone came to when they needed a sympathetic ear or advice on whatever was causing their angst of the moment. I’m usually pretty good at listening and offering helpful advice and, when needed, actual constructive criticism. (I do my best to take it. Don’t be hatin’…)
I have little patience anymore for pity parties. If you want to discuss an issue and find ways to work through it and be proactive, I’m all for it. But please, don’t come to me whining about how awful everything is and then not be willing to do anything to fix your situation.
I’m a Libra, so I can evaluate both sides of anything. I’ll help you see things you may have missed, or just didn’t realize. Have the decency not to complain about how hard it may be. Nothing worth having is ever easy. So either shit or get off the pot.
Another thing that’s bugging me….. Ever have the feeling like something is about to happen? But it hasn’t yet, and you’re wondering ‘Did I imagine that?’ Sometimes you just know somebody has something to say. It’s written all over their face. But do they tell you what’s on their minds? Nooooooo! For crying out loud, People, speak up.!
I guess what makes me so impatient about it is that I finally figured out that I am tired of waiting for things to happen. I’m starting to get more proactive myself, slowly but surely. I’m trying to make things happen instead of waiting for them. I’m in a position in my life where I CAN make things happen. It still may not be as quickly as I’d like, but I’m getting there.
So what can I help you make happen today….